Creative Parents/ Cringing Children
June 9th, 2009 at 12:07Being creative people, parents or not, means that we attack the world in a different way than the norm. This life can be more exciting but often humbling to our children.
My very own Fashion Fairy (FF) was required in her preschool days to come to school dressed in “Hula” attire for Hawaii Day. Hmmmm….Hawaiian Paraphernalia???? I had no clue what to do! But I am nothing if not resourceful!!!
She had a little tankini swimsuit with a Dark Blue, Light Blue and Lime Green Island print. I had spools of Dark Blue, Light Blue and Lime Green ¼” wide, miles long, gift wrapping ribbon that perfectly matched the colors of her swimsuit. After bustling her off to bed, I began to create far into the night. Far longer than a mother with two toddlers who has to show up for work the next day should be up, creating an astounding grass skirt from the ribbon, with leis and head piece to match.
I WAS GENIUS!!!
SHE WAS HORRIFIED!
The next morning, I convinced her to put her outfit on, insisting that it, “was to a grass skirt!” and trotted her pouting little 4 year old self off to school. The teachers were amazed at my handiwork, as they met us at the door of the classroom. As I scooted her into the room with the other 4 year old Hula Hooligans, I saw…then I knew!
Every child there had on the Hula Special outfit from the summer collection at the Dollar Tree. Understand that I have nothing against the Dollar Tree. I would have dragged my two toddlers in and out of the Dollar Tree so fast that they would have only been able to take down two or three displays before I left with a $1 Hula Skirt in my hand…..IF I HAD KNOWN!
Being creative adults, we sometimes miss the obvious things in life. Such as:
The only true, authentic Hula Skirts all come from the Dollar Tree and do not require the better part of a night to create.
And
Having you as parent may be fun at times, but your children will, at some point, maybe many points, cringe at the public display of your talents.
Well…God bestowed us upon them for some reason. Let’s pray it was for a more than their continuing lesson in humility.